The situation most people of faith find themselves entangled with is the paradigm of godly lifestyle vs. the paradigm of ungodly lifestyle. It is the age-old struggle between good and evil, right and wrong, light and darkness, Almighty God and Satan.
The challenge to the person of faith is how not to conform to ungodly standards of morality by watering down or redefining what Almighty God says are His moral standards they ought to follow in living a godly lifestyle.
Know that the motivation of any person is key in their following any paradigm or model and in the case of a person of faith, the defining drive of their motivation is in their relationship with Almighty God. This is because they have received Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior. Therefore, one must know the motivation of the person of faith is to live a godly lifestyle based on their reverence for God.
When the motivation of the person of faith to live a godly lifestyle begins to focus on the acceptance of their family, friends, acquaintances, co-workers etc., to participate in ungodly moral standards as they may be doing, and the person of faith does so, then there is a conformity to a different paradigm or model. It is conformity to an ungodly paradigm. A paradigm not of God.
People of faith must always ask themselves, what is the ungodly world telling them the components of a wholesome lifestyle are? How have they defined wholesome? Do the components they speak about line up with God’s components? How much “alikeness” is there between them? How have they defined moral values, integrity, virtue, truth, and righteousness?
People of faith should understand that their relationship with Almighty God is to be their primary relationship. No other relationship is to trump that and therein lies the challenge for so many people of faith against the backdrop of this ungodly world. How significant and/or important is having your relationship with Almighty God the most important relationship you have in your life? This should be easy for a believer in Jesus Christ to understand, but for many, it is not.
Remember that participating in an ungodly life on this earth will blot out your sensitivity to God. It will rob you of your quiet time with God. It will steal your time put aside to meditate on God and His word. Participating in an ungodly lifestyle will destroy both your quality of time and your quantity of time with the Lord.
So, take heed and pay attention to all the ungodly paradigms that surround you, and do not let yourself get enticed and dragged into them. Ask the Lord to graciously keep you aware of those things that will erode the components of love, goodness, truth, and righteousness that undergird the morality of God.